I'm trying to keep up with the thread and it sounds like you are on the right path. A very useful item for you would be the F Engine Manual. I have one in PDF version that is just under 50k, shoot me your email address.
Chapter 2 of the FSM is dedicated to Engine Tune up and the following snippets of specifications are something I have not seen you have yet.
Distributor - point gap to .016" ~ .020"
Dwell - did not find it noted
Timing - BB to pointer is 7 DBTC, you engine will likely run best with more advance.
Plugs gapped to .028" ~ 0.031"
Valves .014" on Exhaust .008" on Intake
Idle RPM 650-700, High Idle did not find but IIRC it is 1800
Compression - 150 at sea level - need to adjust for altitude
The carb tuning process is pretty straight forward.
This link describes in pretty well. The goal is obtaining the highest vaccum from the engine at idle by adjusting idle mixture, RPM and timing. I've got all the equipment and can also give you a hand when you sort out the fuel issues.
Regarding jets, I have not found a source to by new jets. Pulling carb jets from Aisan carbs will not always work. In the DD38 carb, the primary jet sizes are very different size from what you would pull out of other Aisan carbs - been there done that. The FSM has a chart indicating that these came from the factory with the following jets.
112 Primary in the carb and 108 in the plug
200 Secondary in the carb
090 Power jet in the carb and 080 in the plug
The FSM is mum about slow jet sizes and indicates the need to reference another document (I've never found it) for USA details and it also indicates that at atlitudes above 6,600 feet the 108 should be in the primary and the 080 should be in the power jet.
All that said, I am running the following jets for my F.5 engine:
114 - Primary
180 - Secondary
60 - Power valve
50 - in both slow jets
I've tried 112, 116, 118 in the Primary and my "sweet" jet is 114. The jets work just fine everywhere I drive. Perhaps at high altitude I may be running just a tad rich, but I'm not driving at 10K+ feet often enough to be concerned.
If I'm tracking correctly, you installed the following jets in your rebuild:
114 - Primary
180 - Secondary
UNK - Power Valve
55 - Slow Jet
80 - Slow Jet
The 20 jet does sound confusing, but I think under the scrutiny of a magnafying glass it will be a 200. The 55 is consistent with the size of a power valve jet.
The most difficult jets to find are Primary and Secondary; and on those I think you are in good shape. I'm pretty sure I will have a smaller slow jet to replace the 80. In my research, the Power Valve jet is not as critical for tuning. IIRC at some point I read JimC indicate you cannot get too big on the Power Valve. I did rebuild a DD38 that was missing the Power Valve and while the carb did need to be rebuilt (varnish build up from lack of use) the owner indicated that it ran great prior to getting the varnish build up from lack of use.