Be a duck: "let it roll off your back" (also though if you're a duck then your back is all oily and I might shoot at you so...)
EDIT: Seriously though, Michael Maxfield is a great dude and I'm glad there is a discussion ongoing about the right way to do things. Great communicators like him can help bridge the gaps (I hope).
EDIT: Seriously though, Michael Maxfield is a great dude and I'm glad there is a discussion ongoing about the right way to do things. Great communicators like him can help bridge the gaps (I hope).