MDH33
Hard Core 4+
I know you said you don't like the 1st gen tundras, but might try driving one. We have really grown to love our 05. The 4.7 is a great engine and the slightly smaller size of the truck makes it feel pretty quick and handles well. I've towed with it some and no complaints other than ours isn't set up for trailer brakes. The 1st gen tundra are plentiful and can be found pretty reasonably priced.
Another suggestion to consider (especially since you said you like the mini trucks, would be T100. Regular cab 4x4 was an option. Cool early "full size" factor too.
Another suggestion to consider (especially since you said you like the mini trucks, would be T100. Regular cab 4x4 was an option. Cool early "full size" factor too.