Being a bit of an IFS nutter, I'm going to disagree with Chris a bit here. But, I know you've been around the block far longer than me, so I'm only posting since I don't know what your IFS experience (wheeling-wise) has been. Certainly not trying to step on anyone's toes.
I do not like the SPC stuff. I bought it originally, and after putting it on the truck, and seeing how they worked, I pulled it back off immediately.
"Adjustable" sounds really good in principle. However, having dealt with constant alignment issues in the past, those arms are asking for CONSTANT torque checking to make sure the adjustable part hasn't moved and you don't suddenly have 8 deg of negative camber. I'm sure its fine for the first few thousand miles, but once things wear in a bit, I had visions of the ball joint slipping unexpectedly while on the highway, and I returned them. Probably on par with steering knuckle stud checks, IMO.
I'd go with a fixed uniball. I went with the icons because of the low profile upper bolt which allows a cover to be put over the top of the uniball. The majority of uniball damage occurs on the top where dirt and water collect and cannot drain. This cap prevents that. I've had mine on for 2 years now and no pitting or corrosion, and the liners are still snug and tight.
LCA skids/strengthening: Wouldn't bother. I have NEVER bent a LCA, and I've beat mine pretty good. They aren't a bad idea, but they are more weight, and I think you'll see very little benefit. If you plan to beat it on the rocks, you may want to consider it, but you are better off getting good skids (aluminum is nice) that protect the LCA eccentrics and eccentric mounts. Those can bend making alignments nearly impossible without repair/replacement. On my old runner, I had to do this repair and its a PITA, because there isn't a ton of metal there, and its easy to rip through areas you don't want to. At least that was my experience.
Diff drop is probably not needed. It helps with higher mileage trucks with stiff boots on the CV's. If you are running a really tall lift up front (3+ inches on the coilovers), its probably a good idea. 2.5 and below, I wouldn't bother. Again, just my opinion. I put one on my new runner, but didn't on my brothers and dads. I don't feel my axles are that much less angled. But, on the other hand, its cheap, and easy to install. Only thing to watch out for: some skid plates (including factory) do not always fit well with the diff drop. If you get aftermarket ones or make them, I'd be sure and do the drop first, and double check it will fit.
Anyway, again, not trying to step on anyone's toes. Just putting out my experiences and points of view on a few things.
Cheers!