In general that cross member is a rock-solid mounting location. The cross-member bolt on location is the towing location all over the world. I do not know why we do not use it in the USA.
The tow ball looks mostly like this:
The "D" value is (
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/D-value_(transport))
a rating in
kN that is typically attributed to mechanical
couplings, and reflects
dynamic loading limits between a towing vehicle and a
trailer. The corresponding formula for a truck and trailer combination, used to determine the required D-value of a coupling, is:
T = Weight of towing vehicle including the vertical load on the fifth wheel
R = Total weight of the loaded trailer
U = Vertical load on the fifth wheel
g = Acceleration due to gravity (assumed to be 9.81 m/s 2 )
D (kN) = g x ((0.6 x T x R)/(T + R - U))
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17.5 kN can somewhat be expressed as 3,920 lbs towing capacity.
Will something bolted on an arm 48" above it on a 6" long arm rocking back on a 4x4 road hold or eventually break off? Probably. Its quite a bit of hammering torque. Probably never if only on pavement. It would be much better braced to the rear door. Then the hitch is only holding the vertical wight